Many new parents get excited about choosing a unique and individual name for their baby. But what are the possible consequences? This article guides you through the mindfield of choosing a unique baby name
Whatever unique baby name you decide, don't fall into the trap of self-indulgence. Remember, it's not about you, it's all about your child.
Nature: Many names come from the natural world, particularly flowers (e.g. Rose) and it's a great source for unique baby names.
Geography: Another useful source of great names - grab an atlas and start searching. Hmmm, imagine a lifetime in which your name is a constant reminder of your parents having sex! That's cool...
Foreign Names: Consider using a foreign version of a name. Try using a name from a completely different culture.
Nicknames: Try using a nickname e.g. Angie, instead of Angela or Angelina. However, make sure the name is will pass the "age test" - see number 17 below.
Middle Names: A great way to accommodate individuality when naming your baby, is to combine a common first name with a unique second/middle name. The benefit of this is that your child can avoid embarrassment throughout his/her life by ignoring it of keeping it hidden.
Initials: When you have settled on some baby names, check that the initials aren't embarrassing. This is an easy trap to fall into and can lead to a lifetime of misery.
First Name-Surname: Check how the selected first name combines with the surname. Make sure the two names do not create some something recognizable, to prevent a lifetime of teasing. Also, check the rhythm of the two names; a different number of syllables in each name usually flows much better. Avoid rhyming the 2 names at all costs or your child will hate you forever!
The loudness test: Try saying the name softly, at normal pitch and shouting it very loudly. You may be surprised at the results.
The age test: Try to visualize your child with the name as a baby, as a teenager, as a young adult, a mature adult and as a senior citizen. A name can create completely different perceptions of the individual at separate stages of life.
The meaning: The final test of the baby name that you choose should be to check its meaning (if any). Don't leave your child open to getting a nasty surprise later in life.
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